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Parental Concern:When children seek negative attention!

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duckChildren thrive on attention.  If they are not receiving enough positive attention, they will work on getting negative attention.  This can be due to several factors, such as: they don’t feel noticed for the positive things they are doing or for just “being themselves”.  Therefore they resort to making an impact to get your full attention, even if that means that they will be shouted at or bawled out!  They succeeded in their need to be seen.

Research shows that the problem with giving more than twenty seconds of negative attention is that after a short period of time, the child’s negative behavior INCREASES, rather than DECREASES. A habit has been created!

Here’s where “parenting skill #2” enters:  Give Encouragement, pay positive attention, and positively reinforce what your child is doing well!  In the long run it takes less time and less emotional energy to give the  positive attention that…

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Aim to Reexperience and Claim Your True Power as a Soul~full of peace, love, happiness, purity, and bliss.

Throughout the day, watch your thoughts.  When you recognize that you are creating thoughts or feelings that are negative or wasteful, remind yourself that you are a peaceful and powerful soul, with love in your intellect, the creator of your own experiences.  Give your mind a powerful/loving thought to ponder.  Exercise your right as a … Continue reading Aim to Reexperience and Claim Your True Power as a Soul~full of peace, love, happiness, purity, and bliss. →

To All Parents~For All Children

http://www.livingvalues.net   This is a post on how to help children, your own, the ones you teach or counsel, and even, the ones who visit your home,  There are many components which help children and young adults to move to the rhythm of living and cherishing their values. The following information is paraphrased from Diane … Continue reading To All Parents~For All Children →

Peaceful, Positive Parenting Class~New Date~August 10th

THIS CLASS IS FOR ALL PARENTS, GRANDPARENTS, CAREGIVERS, EDUCATORS, COUNSELORS AND ANYONE WHO WISHES TO NURTURE CHILDREN WITH THE SPIRIT OF PEACE, RESPECT, AND HAPPINESS.  Beginning on NEW DATE: AU… Source: Peaceful, Positive Parenting Class~New Date~August 10th

DROPS OF NECTAR~Catch more of what you want with honey than with vinegar!!!

This is a story a friend recently shared with me about being "nearly perfectly happy"! This is how her story went..."One morning I was walking my young son to school.  Not something I did very often.   Usually I was too busy getting myself and his siblings ready because I often sleep later than I … Continue reading DROPS OF NECTAR~Catch more of what you want with honey than with vinegar!!! →

Karma Made Simple

"The responsibility for happiness and sorrow rests on our actions".  That simplifies karma, doesn't it. Time to stop blaming, especially blaming the Benevolent One.  Turn within to create your happiness and to eliminate causing sorrow for yourself and anyone else...even subtly through thoughts. Don't take others sorrow into yourself, either. It is not nearly as … Continue reading Karma Made Simple →

The Spiritual Significance of the June Solstice 2016 ~ Tanaaz

Wishing you all a  very auspicious Summer Solsitice as we grow into the majesty of who we really are as magnified by the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine energies in Nature reflecting back to us our true identity.   Full Moon falls on Summer Solstice – 20 June The June Solstice falls on the … Continue reading The Spiritual Significance of the June Solstice 2016 ~ Tanaaz →

The Mind Can be like a Jungle…To make it into a Garden, One needs a Plan~

Most of what I write about can benefit anyone and does not need specialized knowledge or beliefs to put into practice.  However, the simplest direction is often the most profound and must be especially clear and exemplified by the speaker in order to be understood. For example: the direction to become pure from impure, to … Continue reading The Mind Can be like a Jungle…To make it into a Garden, One needs a Plan~ →